Posted: March 25th, 2017
‘UNDERSTANDING THE DEEPEST MEANING OF SEX’
Within our beliefs about sex and our own sexuality, lie our core fears as humans about our very existence.
SURFACE POSITIVE BELIEFS ABOUT SEX:
PHYSICALLY—-
It is pleasurable.
It gets us out of our head
Especially in the genital area it feeeeels so good, sometimes almost mesmerizing
The anticipation of it helps us feel alive
Our blood vessels enlarge
Our bodys frequency increases
Our immune system becomes regulated
EMOTIONALLY—
Excitement every time, its an opportunity to get a glimpse of feeling accepted and loved by another
An opportunity to extend our loving nature and risk/hope for acceptance of our self expression
We also get a glimpse of true connection
OUR SURFACE FEARS ABOUT SEX:
PHYSICALLY—
My performance was way below average
I didn’t last long enough
I wasn’t open enough to my partner
I was too shy or too wild
My body will not be pleasing to them
EMOTIONALLY—
I feel too needy and I’m afraid I will show it and they will back away
My sex drive is TOO INTENSE and they will get scared off
A DEEPER LAYER OF CORE FEARS:
However, there is a whole realm of deeper fears that can surface around sex, the anticipation of sex and the actual act or merging of two sexual beings. Most people aren’t even aware that in order to move into the highest, most open and ecstatic level of sexual merging, some very deep purging and release at the sub conscious level is imperative. Most people miss this opportunity.
To really become a conscious lover one must be willing to explore the depths of their own shadow.
This is the path of the tantric student. It is not an easy path, but the final rewards can be astounding!
It is almost unlimited, the depths a person can go, until he realizes that literally every single negative self assessment he holds about himself can be traced back to and will, I assure you, be transmitted, thru his body, emotionally and thru his energy field during the act of sex.
In this way, the unconscious lover, may be opening herself up to actually taking on more than she can handle from a partner who is not interested in becoming conscious about his own sexuality.
WHAT ARE THE DEEPEST FEARS ABOUT OUR VERY EXISTENCE:
Will I cease to exist. Will I dissolve into nothingness —death
If I really surrender and let go I will have to face and feel all the ways I am Not Good Enough
I have to hold back a little to preserve who I am
The ancient tantric adepts were right when they said, “The path of tantra is a fast track to enlightenment!!! BECAUSE…. GUESS WHAT…. Hi Sex….DOES take us to the brink, AND we can and will dissolve into nothingness….. if we dare go there!!!!
Who has the courage to consciously explore, feel and experience their deepest fears in life in general let alone thru the act of conscious sexual merging!!!!
Surface, shallow, genital sex IS …..much safer!!!! But….you are missing out on an opportunity to attain TRUE ONENESS AND COMPLETENESS….. With Oneself!!! That’s the only kind of completeness there is.
It IS— enlightenment!!!
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