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‘ HOW DOES TANTRA CREATE MAGIC

IN RELATIONSHIPS’

 

What is tantra really? Some people think tantra is merely about erotic sex.

It is SO MUCH MORE. In fact, you don’t have to be in relationship to practice and reap the beautiful benefits of tantra.

The ancient knowledge of tantra, that the body is a supernatural vehicle, is still taught today.

Modern day tantra or ‘Neo Tantra’, has added components. Even though learning ‘Hi Sex’ creates the ultimate transformation, there are Many Steps that assist you to FEEL… & to become conscious along the way.

Opening to Passion is the key ….in LIFE… and Ecstatic lovemaking!

SO WHAT MIGHT YOU EXPECT IN A TYPICAL BEGINNING TANTRA SESSION~

Opportunities to open up to one another in very unique ways!!!

* Learn to turn negative emotions into feelings of joy that last for days!

* Learn to Hold Space and be ‘Teammates’ for each other

* Opening to your longing to Be Vulnerable & ‘Open your Hearts’ to each other

* Deepen your love and bonding with your partner

* Learn how to ‘Be In Your Body’ and tune into the sensitivities of it.

We work with the whole body, & mind to transform the Spirit.

The beauty is that your body, when re trained, will create THE MAGIC your relationship needs….TO SOAR.

THEN BOTH PARTNERS WILL NATURALLY LEARN HOW TO BE FULLY SATISFIED IN LOVEMAKING

 

 

‘ YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE ~ Is It Too Strong-

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Too Weak?’

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YOUR SEXUAL DESIRE ~ IS IT TOO STRONG-TOO WEAK??

STRONG SEXUAL DESIRE CAN MEAN MANY THINGS.

STRONG SEXUAL DESIRE CAN MEAN MANY THINGS.

* It can come from strong feelings of abandonment, which are hidden.

* It usually also can signify a longing for heart connection

On the other hand:

* It can be a sign of JOY to fully express who you are.

* Sexual union is very healthy for the body while uplifting our soul!

You will know whether your sexual desire is coming from a desire for healthy expression by the way your body vibrates. Notice, if Just your sex center is feeling desire & if it feels too intense, then you may be trying to cover up old emotional wounds.


If you feel your 
whole body, vibrating in a relaxed way, with your heart, even your head, buzzing……. A FEELING OF ALIVENESS…. as opposed to feeling sexual but rigid & tense. Then you will begin to move naturally into a state of heightened sensitivity & great satisfaction.

A simple solution before sexual merging is to make sure your hearts are open to one another.


~LOW SEXUAL DESIRE~

*It can be a sign of past trauma. Or more commonly a lack of trust.

It also can be a great sign that you are evolving and starting to have more conscious awareness of yourself as an energy being and are connecting with the bliss center, the 3rd eye. !

In Tantra we Allow all Feelings.

Tantric Love is love without restriction, capable of expanding endlessly, without the extreme tensions of passion, without manipulation, without the anguish of continuity or possession of the other.”

HOW CAN WE BECOME CONDUITS OF ECSTATIC LOVE?

By doing the inner work, balancing our emotions, thus freeing the body to relax into high states of ecstasy!

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‘FULL BODY ORGASMIC

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EXPERIENCE’ !

What Does It feel Like at The Height of Full Body Orgasmic Experience !

There are different levels of Full Body Orgasmic Experiences and of course it is hard to describe in words.

THE SUBTLE EXPERIENCE ~ 

I love the subtle experience where a soft undulation takes over….. and my whole body softly oscillates~~~~~~ like a wave, like a ribbon ~~~~~~~ rolling and rippling ~~~~~ up and down my spine.

I can barely direct it ~~~~ all of my chakras, from the 1st to my 3rd eye, are in continuous fluid motion…….my body slinking like a snake.

The relaxation & expansiveness I feel is sublime, vast, sumptuous. My bodies energy has taken over & begins to vibrate as if my cells have expanded 10 feet out. It is involuntary, spontaneous, instinctual, & delicious! I have to force myself to stop!

THE MORE COSMIC EXPERIENCE ~ 

The cosmic Full Body Orgasmic Experience happens when my crown is fully activated. In this experience I am feeling totally limitless………. & totally In Love with Existence. My own existence becomes one with all that is. …………..I am floating……. in a Sea of Love…… I Am Love…… & Bliss……The feeling of Ecstasy is overwhelming…..

As I bring this feeling back into my body, my crown and heart chakra connect, and this time, the back of my heart chakra blows open…. with an astonishing tingling sensation that lasts for an hour.

And guess what! The experience I am describing can be cultivated by choosing to involve the sex center ….Or Not!!! AND… can be experienced with or with out a partner!!! It’s all in the Breath!

 

IN LOVE & ECSTASY! 

Shastra

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‘THE YONI IS A SACRED VESSEL’

OUR YONI IS A SACRED VESSEL TO BE HONORED

ASK FOR PERMISSION TO TOUCH AND SEE THE GODDESS AWAKEN

..Our Sacred Vessels don’t want to be Silent anymore!

..They are not separate from us

..They contain unlimited and powerful energy!

..Men have been waiting for this power to return for thousands of years

.. The Secret Reason men want  us….. IS FOR ENLIGHTENMENT!!!

SHOW YOUR DEEP YEARNING TO THE WORLD~~~~

 WE WERE MEANT TO BE VERY ALIVE & ECSTATICALLY HAPPY!!!

LOVE,

SHASTRA

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AMAZING ARTICLE:

From T.J. on Full Body Orgasms!

“I am very happy to report that my tantric journey  has become deeper
and more fulfilling then I could have ever imagined. I have learned so
very much. I would like to share what I’ve learned and
experienced.

Where to begin . . . . I am going to try and express this in levels.

What I will call Level I was the bare beginning of being able to
understand that ejaculation and orgasm aren’t the same event. They
just happen to sit on top of one another.

 There is an orgasm that I will call a Level I, that occurs as
a result of  stimulation of the genitals and only genital stimulation
will bring
about ejaculation. But, there are other levels of orgasms that have
absoultely nothing to do with genital stimulation.

Level II. Breathe your way to an orgasm… No hands needed.
I started discovering the nerve currents and ways of moving and
breathing that ‘stokes the fire’ from within. This was the first
‘WOW’ !

 What I have learned and experienced is that I can
have extremely intense orgasms, which I would guess – and can now very
much appreciate – is what a woman must experience. It gave me a very
real understanding of how a ‘Goddess should be worshipped’. For me,
these orgasms last as long as I want them to and come and go in
increasingly intense waves, where you scream, rock, clutch the pillow
and just go for it! Pure intense pleasure with no genital involvement
whatsoever.  These orgasms come from very deep inside. It is my experience
that stroking the lingam is but one means of stimulating this Chakra,
but it won’t awaken the ‘sleeping giant’. (the kundalini central channel
) It is really breathing, and how you breathe, that stimulates a
million of other nerve cells. I have reached a point, where the Level
II experiences would happen most of the time — but not necessarily
every day. Then came another discovery.

This is where I am now…..

Level III “If you go to sleep from a Level III experience, it will
be waiting for you when you wake up . . . !” What a delicious
occurrence ! 🙂

At first, I though it might just be a quirk. But now a little more
than a month since finding this higher level, or place, I think I can
safely state that it’s real.

What I call Level III happens after about an hour of some intense
Level II (which now occurs at will) — which builds and builds. I
just never knew that you could level off at the top of the last major
pleasure wave—and just stay there. It usually takes about an hour’s
time to ‘get there’ but who’s counting! I have found the controls!

 I would describe this as a deep resonating energy flow and
vibration that goes everywhere inside — somewhat like a very large
bell ringing that only requires the slightest touch to keep it going.
There seems to be no time limit as to how long I can float there. I
don’t think the word orgasm can be used any longer to describe Level
III. Instead, I would say that Level III is a highly intense state of
well being. I have also experienced that Level III can exist
simultaneously along with the more basic Level II stuff. However,
it is the Level III intensity that stays with you well into the day
and comes back again at night, just before going to sleep. It is real
and it has become a welcomed and treasured daily experience. I have
also discovered that you can experience a Level III a Level II, and if
one wants to get the genitals involved, a Level I — all at the same
time. The Level I, as would be expected, explodes and gets over with
fairly fast. But the Level III and II intensities keep right on
happening.

I consider my experience a highly cherished gift .

I might also add that there a few side effects. Major energy, a
heightened sensitivity to colors; music, things of beauty, and
finally…it is highly addictive.

I am not sure how this translates into lovemaking. I think it will be
beautiful and very intense when or if, I find the right person to
share with.

T.J.

 

‘WHAT MAKES SEX SACRED’

….Consciousness….

Osho says~ “ If you become aware and alert, meditative;  then sex can be transformed into love.”

FOR MEN~

 *Her ‘Radiant Full Body Energy’, touching you…everywhere…. lighting up  every cell…. moving you to a place of ‘Deeper Awareness of Yourself’… and  helping  you create a ‘New Meaning’ to your existence as body and soul.

 *Surrendering  to a woman’s ‘Power and Magnetism’, Letting her Pull You… into her ‘Wise Cosmic Womb’… allowing yourself to re enter the safety and feeling of completeness you long for… returning to seed.

 *Letting her ‘Full’ & sometimes ‘Wild Sexual Expression’….. of all emotions….expand your potential and your masculine mission.

FOR WOMEN~

 . Feeling his ‘Strength’…… and  the ‘Safety & Gentleness’….. of his full body caress. Letting his worship, respect and adoration of you expand your radiance…. to the ends of creation.

 .Surrendering to his gift of ‘Presence and Power’….. to help you relax into your natural receptive feminine state…… shedding your  masculine protective wall.

 .’The Completeness Felt.’… as you ‘Feel his Willingness’…  he enters fully into your sacred unfathomable space of love…… you ‘Become Altered’….. FOREVER…..

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The Beauty of Silent Meditation

AFTERWARD

~~~Slowly Moving apart~~~

Feeling the Love

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Mutual Respect

Guarding & Protecting

each others Sovereignty

AGAIN

I was inspired to write you a message of tantric love today!

I hope you are having a yummy summer!  I am enjoying  paying attention to every minute detail of my bodies needs, wants and desires!!!

I would love to hear from you at any time!!!

Love & Blessings,

Shastra

goddess.shastra@gmail.com

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‘A STORY OF TWO TANTRIC LOVERS’

 

This is a beautiful story of Jordan and Anna and how their relationship was transformed by an experience of lovemaking following tantra training.

Jordan: We were moving slowly, just being present with each other.

Anna: In the past I would have felt left behind by Jordan’s level of excitement, but this time it was very different.

Jordan: We were one. What was happening in her happened in me. Before we have had moments of extreme closeness. But this time the veil that separates us was gone.

Anna: Our previous level of intimacy could be called simultaneous pleasure. But this experience, crosses over from separate but simultaneous to us becoming one body. The experience is that of sun & moon meeting, the warmth of moonlight and cool beauty in sunlight, yin & yang merged as one.

Since that experience, there is a feeling that all the busy-ness of life doesn’t touch our unity. Something has remained. There is a deeper quality of togetherness, which remains untouched by outward events. This brings a deep trust and security to our relationship. The depth of connection we have has swept away any insecurity that I used to feel, such as the concern that he would have an affair. The depth we have is so total, that anything else would simply be a ripple on the surface.

Jordan: I feel much freer to be as I am, mischievous, flirtatious or whatever. I feel free yet more in touch with the love, and the depth of connection I have with her.

I would like to say to lovers everywhere, keep going. Don’t stop half way. Go on until you either separate or transform. Feel honestly and be real honest with yourself. Let go of the voices that keep you from being really close & intimate. Dare to be vulnerable. Allow your little boy to emerge and discover your supernatural essence in the process.

Anna: My message to lovers everywhere is keep showing your vulnerability and call for the vulnerability of your partner. The magic comes out of that space. It may be the scariest place but it is where the magic is.. Maybe there are layers of healing before the ecstacy can come. But it is really a deep pleasure when truths are revealed. The peak pleasure comes only after relaxing into the valley of exposing your ordinary truth.

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‘WHAT IS TANTRIC MEDITATION’~

BENEFITS FOR SINGLES & COUPLES~

 

A famous tantra guru Sarita, out of London experienced a life changing set of shifts after engaging in a series of 28 lovemaking meditations with a friend, who she was not even attracted to at the time. After completing the lovemaking meditations Sarita & Geho fell in love and began their path of teaching tantra all over the world!

TANTRIC MEDITATION can take many forms. But what it may have in common with regular meditation is that whether done solo or with a partner, in tantric meditation, we focus our awareness with specific goals in order to raise our consciousness & integrate with our higher aspects.

There are active meditations, involving the breath. Also there are inactive, silent types of tantric meditations. Tantric meditations are designed and can be done solo or with a partner. They can be non sexual or sexual.

 SOLO-NON SEXUAL MEDITATIONS~

Help us focus upon our bodies, and are a great way to move into states of more self acceptance for our bodies. The active solo meditations, especially involving the breath are imperative for developing the ecstatic body. You must develop your own central channel before being able to transfer this expanded energy with a partner.

There are many solo meditations, that Shastra recommends for her clients.

SOLO- SEXUAL MEDITATIONS~

Such as types of self pleasuring and sexual breathing practices. These assist in a profound way to de armour and shed emotional and physical blocks, and move you into states fo sexual wholeness you may never have experienced before.

PARTNERED -NON SEXUAL MEDITATIONS~

These can be many forms of tantric dialogue, such as sharing sexual history, where you may be satisfied with your partner, and expressing what you may be missing and asking for what you want.

Shastra can guide couples in the most positive ways of verbal communication, so that each partner feels fully heard, possibly for the first time.

Other partnered meditations may include just lying together, sharing energy without touching, fulfilling the feminine, yin, essence, to recharge both partners.

Active, non sexual tantric meditations also include many types of tantric breath work that can be done together. There are so many possibilities!

Also, please watch the Tantra Show, (link on the home page) for other examples of tantric meditation!

 PARTNERED SEXUAL MEDITATIONS~

Include lots of specific breathwork practices done during lovemaking to raise & refine raw sexual energy, using many different positions including the powerful yab yum position, which can break up the deepest blocks in intimacy. Also meditations to honor lingam & yoni, which are powerful in moving you into profound states of oneness and to be able to  open & relax in ones presence more fully!

Please contact Shastra with any inquiries or questions you may have.

 

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